There is no cost to purchase. Simply e-mail us at to request your Connect Contact Form.  This will allow you to replace the qualities you previously submitted. This includes minimizing or expanding the challenges, symptoms or diagnoses you are looking for in a connection. 


  • If you would like to be removed from the S1LY database, at any time at no cost to you, this can be done by submitting your request in writing to It is our hope to connect each of our members with another member who matches what they are looking for in someone else in regards to their specific health condition qualities; however, we can not guarantee results.

  • Within 48 hours, your secure form will begin to be processed in our secure database. Upon completion of initial processing, it typically takes 2-3 business days for potential matches to be identified. At that point, you and potential connections will both be given each other's email addresses. If at your initial submission your entries do not produce a connection, we will continue to check for as each new member enters our system. We will then continue to track your future connections under the same qualifiers you have submitted.